So with ot being the “Year of the Orgasm” Ii’ve decided to make this sexual bucket list tie into that theme (for the most part). Some of it will cross boundaries I’ve had, some of it will be reengaging in things I know I enjoy but may have gotten away from, and some of it will be new. so lets get the fun started shall we?
Over All Sexual Bucket List Goals for 2016
1) Cum at least 3 times a week. After all if it’s the year of the orgasm i need to benefit from it as well. Beyond that this one has no limits. Could be three times in one day, or spread out over the week. The goal is primarily with others but as life will interfere so masturbation also counts.
2) Participate in six different people’s orgasms (myself excluded) and write about those experiences. Maybe as an active participant, maybe as a known voyeur. The only rule is no paid services or camming. Has to be done with out commercial complications. Being paying attendees at a conference/event would however count.
3) 60 minute edging/orgasm denial scene with a bottom of choice. (or willing partner to play this little game)
4) Make her cum during/from a spanking Sure other stimulation will be allowed allowed but she has to orgasm whgile actually getting her cute little ass beat. Everything esle is merely a detail.
5) Forced orgasm predicament bondage scene. A bonus for a post about it from my perspective. Double bonus on a post from teh Bottom’s experience.
6) interview 4 people about their orgasms.
7) Review/Try/Experiment with 12 orgasm related items, websites, books. Toya, etc.
8) Orgasm photo series – from just a tease, to the moment of release and the after math. This one will challenge me in terms of content, creativity, photographic skills, and of course partners.
9) Toy with her…watch or participate in a sex toy only session. No fingers, cocks, tounges, just an assortment of toys and lubes until she’s a heaving satisfied exhausted puddle of lust.
10) Clit Commander
– Ok it’s a (bad) Kevin Smith Jay and Silent Bob Strike back movie reference “I am the the Clit Commander
“. The goal is simple using nothing but my fingers and willing participants clit produce a series of orgasms with no other stimulation. No penetration, petting, pinching rubbing or grabbing of other body parts. Why would I want to try this? Because I never have and why not.
The above items are more or less table stakes for it to be a good year …well sexually speaking for me. But that doesn’t mean It’s all i want.
The Over Acheiver’s Sexual Bucket List Items
The following are ones may not be able to be pulled off. they have not been pre agreed to by my partner(s) and cross some boundaries I have in my relationships. So time will tell.
1) PiV while she is wearing a large plug. – Look it’s a relatively demure play on a double penetration. We all have limits and mine are as complicated as many so this seems like a potentially obtainable act.
2)Have Sex in 3 New Countries – Look I’m pretty much out of states. In face I’;ve had sex in every state I’ve ever been in but Louisiana, Utah, and Washington. I;ve had sex on the beach, in the elevator and even in a church. So most locations wouldn’t be new so for a while it’s been countries to keep adding new notches on the proverbial bed post. and with a host of new locales in my travel plans this one should be a slam dunk given that my partner will travel with me.
3) Many Happy Endings – more to be said about this one in the future.
So there you have it my sexual bucket list for the year. Not exactly overly wild, not unattainable, with lots or room for success and or course orgasms.