Orgasm Experience #2 Spanked and Self Gratification

Orgasm Experience #2 Katie’s Spanking and Self Gratification
 An old friend “Katie” ( previously referred to as My Favorite Sexy Little Brunette in posts of a bygone era) and I happened to find ourselves in the same place purely by coincidence.  Literally we ran into each other in a hotel lobby just like in the Prince song Darling Nikki. Well ok she was carrying shopping bags not mastubating with a magazine but we had the hotel lobby part down. So some background for newer readers. We were a regular feature for nearly 5 years and still (occasionally) keep in touch in the years since then.  Not a love story but we were very good friends with a unque pseudo Ds dynamic. I basically was a several day a month boyfriend/rent a Top type.
So back to the now.  Headspace wise I was in a pretty dark place. It was my first days back at work after a holiday, my first trip with out my secret companion tucked away and it hit me substantially harder than expected. Add to that that winter just fucking sucks balls. All of it was something that made me feel truly isolated and lonely.  Even friends and handler types were cutting me a wide berth as I was in a war like evil fucker mode with everyone for no good reason. Enter my old friend.
After some catching up and dancing around memory lane we settled on a command performance that night.  She wanted and got a very hard no nonsense belt spanking and agreed to participate in this year’s orgasm theme.
Along those lines post impact play she proceeded to pleasure herself to two orgasms with a medium sized bullet vibe and fingers dancing between her lips and over her clit while laying on a rough sawn wooden bench. She rubbed and purred. I watched like a stranger a few feet away.
She got what she wanted spanked and a voyeur/audience. I got to add a second person to my list of participating in six different people’s orgasm expeiences  and writing about it. No complaints.  It was some how familiar as seeimg her cum was nothing new and strange.  In that I was really removed from it a disinterested stranger was a new dynamic.
Tick the box. Put her toy away and panties back on. A hug good bye and until serendipity strikes again done is done. Two down and four to go. Assuming i’m not in the mood the mood to be an over achiever.
After thoughts- the tone of the post seems cold. I come off very dickish. It is true at the time I was not in the mood to be happy, supportive, and cheerfully sexual and my tone shouldn’t be a reflection on her. I checked and she thought the adventure was a lot of fun “even though grumpy Mal was present and not willing to participate in a good grudge fuck or any other fun.” I’ve chosen to leave the post as originally written to reflect my experience.

Orgasm Experience #1 The Chesty Blonde


Well a bit over due but its time to bring you up to speed with my progress in the Year of the a orgasm. One of the goals was to participate in six different people’s orgasm expeiences.

Orgasm Experience 1 The Chesty Blonde

So my first orgasm experience participant is probably the most obvious…The Chesty Blonde who much to my surprise has embraced the theme like nothing else in recent years.  Obviously since whe’s my spouse this time my participation is quite literally very active.
While midnight new years eve may have featured one sleeping demon that’s been one of the few slow times sexually speaking with me around.
Somehow I think three orgasm per week goal I set for myself was upped by her to  three orgasms per sexual encounter.  Hand, mouth, and cock driven releases at almost every encounter. Of course other nights it has been mouth, cock and hand. And on a few particularly orgasmically greedy nights it was mouth, hand, cock, mouth; mouth, hand (due to a sprained tounge).
No complaints from me and she has so embraced the theme whole hearted. Havebdone a few things that might almoat qualify as a scene  and added a Doxy Massager to the mix along with a few other new toys that seem to be exceptional at producing well used and satisfied  puddle of Blonde when we finish.
At the two and a half month mark she has cum more (with me) than all of last year so on this front the year of the orgasm has been a huge success and one I have benefitted from as well.

Darkness, Kink, and Orgasm Participant #2

Darkness, hidden deep in your tarnished  soul
So feed it a brunette you use to know
You missed the moans, the pleas, and screams.
As the night swallowed both her and me.
Not complicated and it never was
Just a loose one, her, and a little fun
Not much for words. She prefers to act
Pinned to the wall, cold stone against her back.
She told him that she knows something about him has changed.
Like anyone really stays the same.
He can not say he did not touch but outside of her getting the hand the belt and a old hair brush
Other than that he mostly watched.
Then then they talked and had coffee and cake.
She showed her marks and the wet spot she made.
So she was kissed and used and soundly spanked.
And blushed a little when she said good bye and told him thanks.
It’s just a game they use to play.
And rediscovered late yesterday.
A little harmless dirty fun.
The moments passed and once again done is done.

2016 Sexual Bucket List – Year of the Orgasm

So with ot being the “Year of the Orgasm” Ii’ve decided to make this sexual bucket list tie into that theme (for the most part).  Some of it will cross boundaries I’ve had, some of it will be reengaging in things I know I enjoy but may have gotten away from, and some of it will be new.  so lets get the fun started shall we?

Over All Sexual Bucket List Goals for 2016

1) Cum at least 3 times a week.   After all if it’s the year of the orgasm  i need to benefit from it as well.  Beyond that this one has no limits. Could be three times in one day,  or spread out over the week. The goal is primarily with others but as life will interfere so masturbation also counts.
2) Participate in six different people’s orgasms (myself excluded) and write about those experiences.  Maybe as an active participant, maybe as a known voyeur. The only rule is no paid services or camming.  Has to be done with out commercial complications.  Being paying attendees at a conference/event would however count.
3) 60 minute edging/orgasm denial scene with a bottom of choice.  (or willing partner to play this little game)
4) Make her cum during/from a spanking  Sure other stimulation will be allowed allowed but she has to orgasm whgile actually getting her cute little ass beat.   Everything esle is merely a detail.
5) Forced orgasm predicament bondage scene.  A bonus for a post about it from my perspective.  Double bonus on a post from teh Bottom’s experience.
6) interview 4 people about their orgasms.
7) Review/Try/Experiment with 12 orgasm related items, websites, books. Toya, etc.
8) Orgasm photo series – from just a tease, to the moment of release and the after math. This one will challenge me in terms of content, creativity, photographic skills, and of course partners.
9) Toy with her…watch or participate in a sex toy only session. No fingers, cocks, tounges, just an assortment of toys and lubes until she’s a heaving satisfied exhausted puddle of lust.
10) Clit Commander – Ok it’s a (bad) Kevin Smith Jay and Silent Bob Strike back movie reference “I am the the Clit Commander“.  The goal is simple using nothing but my fingers and willing participants clit produce a series of orgasms with no other stimulation.  No penetration, petting, pinching rubbing or grabbing of other body parts.   Why would I want to try this?  Because I never have and why not.
The above items are more or less table stakes for it to be a good year …well sexually speaking for me.   But that doesn’t mean It’s all i want.

The Over Acheiver’s Sexual Bucket List Items

The following are ones may not be able to be pulled off.  they have not been pre agreed to by my partner(s) and cross some boundaries I have in my relationships.  So time will tell.

1) PiV while she is wearing a large plug.  – Look it’s a relatively demure play on a double penetration.  We all have limits and mine are as complicated as many so this seems like a potentially obtainable act.
2)Have Sex in 3 New Countries – Look I’m pretty much out of states. In face I’;ve had sex in every state I’ve ever been in but Louisiana, Utah, and Washington.  I;ve had sex on the beach, in the elevator and even in a church.  So most locations wouldn’t be new so for a while it’s been countries to keep adding new notches on the proverbial bed post. and with a host of new locales in my travel plans this one should be a slam dunk given that my partner will travel with me.
3) Many Happy Endings – more to be said about this one in the future.
So there you have it my sexual bucket list for the year.  Not exactly overly wild, not unattainable, with lots or room for success and or course orgasms.