Before you read this fair warning I have been working on some darker fantasy writes and depending how this goes I might start posting these here more regularly. Without further delay I will let you glimpse into the darker side of my muse. Another slow day at the store as […]


  Identity, a word that says so much yet so little Perception, the means to deception Inception of your misconceptions Lies to trivialize and hide The emptiness inside Eat at the veneer Of your deception Perception the true reflection Of how one identifies Toxic to the core Attention seeking whore […]


Discussing Consent and Scene Negotiation   Part of my life i have been a father to two daughters. I have done my best to be open and honest with them about my own sexuality, empower their own positive body image and set real world expectations around relationships. Both mainstream ones […]

Discussing Consent and Scene Negotiation

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Tell me Again. I want to see your face as you say it. Look at me hold my gaze And Talk Dirty to Me.   Oh my how absolutely filthy. Then again I have a thing for dirty minds.     Btw for the fashion obsessed this is a Navy […]

Talk Dirty to Me

La Chica Casa   I was sitting at the seven millionth business dinner of the week.  A friend who knew my lover lived in the city where we were had apparently told another about her.  Which is fine, i am discreet but she is in no way a secret, although […]

La Chica Casa

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I don’t do religious holidays with family. At least not since moving to the mid west. Apparently religious people seem to feel they should include religion. Who knew? Not this East Coaster. Though the flat lands aren all bad 83 degrees, blue jeans and wine. And a peaceful night alone.

Blue Jeans and Wine

Houston we have a stalker   Originally we were introduced at an event. She knew who i was and being my  loveable aloof self had not a clue she existed.  Being a legend in my own mind i was certain our mutual friend must have mentioned me. All kidding aside […]

Houston we have a Stalker

364 days and 2 dates I mention it often. Being in any kind of relationship with me is difficult. Even a simple friendship can be challenging because my  (professional) life is so unpredictable.   Being in a physical, romantic, and/or kink one takes far more patience.  So literally 364 days […]

364 Days and 2 Dates

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Back In Black I hit the sack I’ve been too long I’m glad to be back Yes, I’m let loose From the noose That’s kept me hanging about I’ve been looking at the sky ‘Cause it’s gettin’ me high Forget the hearse ’cause I never die I got nine lives […]

Back In Black

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Because you won’t   It Is a fairly safe bet that there are a lot of people in the world who don’t exactly love me.  If you bet the over on the vast majority of those being male you won that wager.   Since i can remember as the saying goes […]

Because You Won’t