Sometimes when everything else is said and done.

The lust quenched, her submission complete

There is something peaceful, deeply connecting, and amazing

if you just step back and watch her breathe.


So I sat there admiring her every breath

she had been beaten, Used for my pleasure,

driven to orgasm mercilessly over and over again…as a “reward”

then covered in wax, one slow drop after another,

from belly, to breasts, and thighs,

then back again.

during n inhilation wax on the Tempress's body

All that was left to do was sit there as she floated away,

lost in her own thoughts, or swimming in the bliss of nothingness,

and watch her


Sinful Sunday

Andy’s Worst Nightmare

“Sex is more exciting on the screen and between the pages than between the sheets” – Andy Warhol


Mal in a Mohawk and Warhol esque picture.


A while back I was Rough. Perhaps in many ways I’m Andy’s worst nightmare. An aging Anarchist, a graying Punker, older angrier, and as the meme ragging on Henry Rollins says a “much earlier bed time”.   Even worse I’m a nobody who believes sex in real life is infinitely  better than between the pages; If you’re doing it right.  And just may be the only thing truly worth living for.♥


Sinful Sunday

Hope and Books

Hope and Books.  Both can be a day dream or an escape.  A path forward to places, ideas, and knowledge we could not otherwise obtain. My youngest will soon to be 18.  She is very much her father’s daughter. In an academic setting she has been writing about sexuality, art, and politics in an unabashed manner for several years.  She has followed an extremely nontraditional path.  The Blonde and I are both very proud of the young woman she’s become.

Below is a sample of the text books from her fall university term. Her courses include Gender Studies, Human Sexuality, the impact of religion on politics and culture, and of course an honors level class on what else but the importance of Harry Potter.  At the risk of being controversial (yet again) I can hear choirs of family members damning me to hell again for allowing such a course of education. That Choir can fuck off. Proudly I can state she picked her own courses.

Maybe there is hope for the next generation. That the world will move towards being more open.  That the fanatics and zealots won’t win that day.  That they will go back to their holes and less than crowded places of gathering and perhaps the rest of us will be less repressed and judgmental because of it.  That differences will not only be accepted but appreciated.  That everyone; but women in particular will be far more free and less controlled.  That maybe if if my kids view the world through an open lens they will help others not raised in accepting and open environments to do the same.


So the optimist in me thinks Hope and Books might just be the right way forward.

It’s also very reassuring to know that I’m not the only one the thought police may show up for.


Gender and Sexuality Studie Text Books

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Sinful Sunday



Nothing Is Different But Everything’s Changed

“Nothing is Different,

Nothing has changed,


Blue Skies - Malflic's view out his airplane windo June 2016

But Nothing will ever

Be the same.

A luxurious empty chair ion a posh hotel lobby

I don’t know my face

and I don’t know my name


Mal's Leg in the dim light of the night

But Nothing is Different

and Everything’s changed”

Written by Malflic Circa 1992 But fits more than ever. All photos from 2016.

A Starbucks Coffe Cup, an i phone, and two empty chairs for nonexistenet friends

The story these pictures tell is open to your interpretation.

This months prompt is “Change” was picked by Jade.

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Sinful Sunday

Sex Toy Soup

We’ll It’s time for this months Sinful Sunday Theme Submission.  The prompt was essentially Sex Toys and seeing as my state of mind is still askew from even my version of normal  I opted to take the Andy Warhol Theme from last week one  (or four) steps furthers and create a Series of Sex Toy Soup Themed images playing on his interpretation of the Campbell’s Soup can.  After all what is more American then Pop Art Stolen from another Person’s idea, Campbell’s Soup, Dildos and Butt Plugs all put together?

Waves of Pleasure Warhol inspired Spup can with a Dildo Over it




A Tantus perfect pluf super imposed on a soup can in a Warhol Inspired Sexy toy Photo


Thick Dildo Soup Can A la Wathol and Sex Toy Photo Edit


Tanatus Large Perfect Pplug with Vibrator Color Edited and placed on a Campbells Soup Can

For anyone who is interested and truly in jest there is the  “The Essential Sex Toy Soup Reading Companion”.  Ok part 3 is  really just to remind myself how I did this as much anything. Also there’s some humorous insight into why the fuck I put Dildo’s and Butt Plugs into a Sex Toy Soup themed Post.   The short answer is “Plan A” Didn’t work.


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Sinful Sunday



“People need to be made more aware of the need to work at learning how to live because life is so quick and sometimes it goes away too quickly” – Andy Warhol

Behind the bespoke suits, clean shaven face, the portriat of a respectable and civilized life, and fancy friends is the real me.  The one that is Rough. Who prefers his addiction to morally questionable women, rough sex, and loud angry music over all else.

Warhol type picture of Mal with a Mohawk

If you know me, yes this picture is both really of me and recent. I love if becuase it is not flattering. It is quite literally a portrait of a life that very easily could have been. A moment of the darkness often referenced but typically very far from sight.

Appearing nothing like the expected apparition, the image you are normally allowed see, the one you think you know. The vanity is gone. This is a person who overtly doesn’t even pretend to give a fuck. Who has decided to live for a few moments fully on his own terms.


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Sinful Sunday

Only the Tip

Only the Tip


This for me is a very uncharacteristic picture.   After all my idea of a good cock shot usually includes a rooster and is done in jest.   Yet as part of what I seem to have taken on as an unplanned challenge this year for Masturbation Month I decided to do something that was new. Take a picture early on during some self indulgent moments.  But for now it’s only the tip…maybe things will work their way into other things from there.

Male Penis Tip during Mastrubation

I’ll be the first to say that sometimes the best thing about art is that it makes you uncomfortable.  I’m not so sure that hold true when it’s you that are the subject, artist, and viewer but none the less.

Sinful Sunday