Sexually Speaking; He Said / She Said

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A Guest Post by The Official Naked Nurse Hearing the click of the shutter leaves a hypnotic hum in the air. The simple sound creates an ambiance of mystery, intrigue and creativity.  The fluid partnership between the photographer and model is evident as each frame frozen in time becomes a […]

A Model’s View Erotic Photography – Sexually Speaking She Said

Note: This is an edited transcript of the Malflic and the Pixie discussing a recent spanking play session.  You can read the Pixie’s perspective in Being a Test Bottom” and Malflic’s Perspective in the “Paddle Test” In case you missed the earlier posts here’s a bit of background not only […]

They Said – The Test Bottom & the Mad Scientist

So while my lovely wife joked about me being uptight in preparing for a scene I’d like to point out that in truth it depends on the type of play that I’m getting into. So yes if I’m planning to do some type of bondage I need to think about restraints and what type, rope, what and how much, who I’m playing with, where. Etc. After all there is nothing worse than wanting to tie someone to the bed post for whatever illicit purpose and having to trash your NiN shirt, or the bath towels for make shift restraints. It might be hot but you can’t see that tour ever again. That gets the how, the who and the where out there but let’s not forget why are am I playing at all? Art, Sex, I had a shitty week at work, just because I have an elected official in arms reach and think they need beat…whatever. That said I’ll offer my standard disclaimer. I’m not an expert, this is what works for me, it might not work for you. Either way I’m open to hearing your ideas. More fun and less prep sounds like a great idea.

Preparing for a Scene – A Top’s View – ...

When she first put that pic up on her blog I literally went back to it a half a dozen times the first day just to look at it again. It’s been years since anyone’s picture has had that impact on me. I think she’s so sexy and love a lot of her other pictures but there is something I still can’t explain about this one that is so fucking hot. I just love being able to see her curves, her hair tucked up, standing there just daring us to lick the honey off of her.

Sexually Speaking Sensations (They said)

Removing the emotional connection to a partner, and the mental aspect of a scene or sex act out of the equation we are left with sensations. Those we like to receive and those we like to give. Despite my proclivities for topping impact play scene’s I’ll spare you a manifesto on that topic today and focus instead on the type sensation that play that I engage in quite often but mention very little. If you were to walk into my bedroom and open the night stand on my side of the bed beyond rope you might expect to find a sadists delight. In truth you’d be sadly mistaken. What you will find is

Sensations He Said

For some, sensation play is merely the warm up to the ultimate scene. For others it is a completely asexual act, a way to make another squirm in a mix of pleasure and possibly pain. For yet others it is the intermission, a chance to recover and ummmmm well to warm him back up. Well lets just say for me it is all of the above and then some.

She Said Sensations