So I’ve decided to do TMI Tuesday this week. Given the bulk of this blog is about sex and relationships the theme of sexual confessions seemed fitting.
1) Have you ever devoted an entire day to sex and sexual activity (with breaks for eating, etc)? Was it planned or spontaneous? Any kinky fun?
Only a day? Yes i have dedicted days to sex and kink. In fact there have been entire weekends, long weekends, and a few times entire weeks (and vacations) dedicated to sexual activity.
They are some of my happiest memories and i miss them. Currently in the works are some kinky and sexy nights. I tend to be a planner and hope the other person is also looking forward to them with excitement (and maybe a hint of trepidation)
2. Have you had sex simultaneously with two or more people in a private residence? Did you know them well or was it a setup casual encounter?
Yes. Once upon a time i was a complete and wanton male whore (by some people’s definition. I thought it was normal) So yes to simultaneous sex, yes to it being set up, yes to it being casual (barely knew each others names or maybe didn’t ). Yes to more than two.
I have also been part of several 2+ Top kink scenes that were a lot of fun. And a few 2+ bottoms scenes where I was the only top. Even more fun but a lot of work. Spankers elbow anyone?
3. Have you gone out in public wearing an anal plug or vibrator device?
As for me the answer is no. But yes to carring the vibe remote. So flipping this to a Top based answer. Yes i have had partners wear vibes and vibrating panties to dinners, parties, and sporting events. A few have worn plugs for me in public but only for a short-time. It would work for me on a lot of levels with the right partner. Not least of all looking across the dinner table knowingly at her and watching her blush. I do have a bit of a thing for naughty women.
4. Have you ever fantasized about or practiced orgasm control/denial
It is an area of interest to me. The control of others that is. Usually i’m more of Forced O kind of guy but there is a growing appeal to denial and edging in my partner. It is a topic i’ve given more thought in recent weeks.
Also…fairness Alice is currently telling a story where I used denial and control over the course of a day. It was an exception to what has been my norm.
5. Do you like being called dirty names during sex? What names get you off the best?
I like partners who are verbal and communicative. As for calling me names it’s negotiable. Being told by a bottom that i’m mean, evil, and wicked can be great fun. (I occasionally get called these outside of sex and kink and take equal pleasure in it). There is a running joke about a casual partner who use to call me Daddy which I hated, until it was used as a set up for a very hard paddling scene. After that it’s bothered me less.
Now do i like to call other names? Only if asked and with in limits. Sure telling them something is very dirty (in a good way) or hot is fine if they’ll get off on it. Sometimes banter about her being a good girl or a bad girl is natural inside a spanking role play/fore play or Ds dynamic. I won’t do anything verbally cruel or demeaning even if asked. It’s a hard limit.
The open confessional- there is a difference between causal and one night stand. I am working towards some fun and casual relationships but have no interest is only having miss last night. These days more of a connection than that is needed.
How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!
Happy TMI Tuesday