I have always loved getting blow jobs. At one point in life they were the height of sexual conquest. Unlike somethings they never grew old. In general pleasure is perfectly fine with me but looking deeper there are other reasons they’re such a favorite sexual activity.
No performance anxiety – Sounds silly right but if she’s going down on me unless I have some sudden need to change the pace or the depth it’s a chance to simple enjoy the sensations for more that the building arousal or orgasm.
I like to watch – There can be a visual component and at times it’s something that really turns me on.
An Audio experience – I’m not talking porno babble of referencing a woman who would try to talk the entire time she gave head. Murmurs and purrs are great but also so is a quiet room and just enjoying the sounds of her hard at work.
BJ’s are part of my regular sexual routine as either foreplay or a transition from position or activities. In fact so much so that I don’t believe I’ve ever turned one down from a lover. Still typically they are not usually done to completion, just something do do in between fucking or to get me going and wanting to have sex (more, again, or again and again). Someday I may need pharmaceutical enhancement for sexual purposes but so far all I need is a willing set of lips and mouth. Still every so often I like oral to be the main course and taken to the point of orgasm, I would say in fact it’s my favorite way to come. That might not be true still sometimes there is no doubt that it’s what I really want. Sure I can fuck you, and it’s wonderful it really is, and hot and erotic and dirty but sometimes all I really want is a blow job.