It’s not the size of the boat or the motion of the ocean that matters, but if the captain can stay in port long enough for all the passengers to get off. Truer words have never been said in my humble opinion. For guys this is an ongoing debate because of the controversy of if size matters or is it how you use it eternally rages. I say that there are many pieces to the puzzle and that the luxury yacht piloted by a skipper with no skills is as bad as a 2 minute dingy ride with a skilled captain that is there just to get to its destination.
So what makes a good captain and the ride enjoyable for all parties on the voyage? (Oh by the way I grew up around the navy so boats and nautical terms come easy to me.) Well batten the hatches and drop the canvas as we sail into these rough and mysterious waters.
So my friends how many people do you know that are exactly alike? The same likes and dislikes, the same outlook on pain and pleasure, even the same things that feel good? That’s right none. Every person is different in some way. For the sake of simplicity I will come about to the waters of a heterosexual relationship. One man and one woman, just makes it easier for conversation sake at the moment.
So there is the bonny lass you have chased since the 4th grade, your (inset age here) and it’s now time to get down to it. You’re off like a pirate chasing a ship loaded with gold and before you get going good there is a strange feeling and boom it’s over. You crossed the finish line, the crowd cheers and you have now become a man. You are on the biggest high of your young life. At that moment you can walk on water while carrying the world on one shoulder. Guys you know that feeling, at least the first time right? So what was it like for her? Did she enjoy it? Did you ask? Odds are no you were too high from the rush to even notice.
At this youthful point in life the male brain is obsessed with one thing, the finish line.
For women it can be quite frustrating when they hear that this experience is supposed to feel good. Question will arise, was it them, what is their issue, why didn’t they have some earth moving experience like the guy did? The answer is this fact: it was their partner who raced toward the finish line and left them back at the dock.
I don’t have any expertise in what ages a female can achieve orgasm but I would fare a guess it was around the same time the male counterpart could. It is just that it takes a different path for women to get their big boom.
Guys it’s all about what we see, throw in a little friction and it’s all good. For women I have been informed it is about what they feel. No guys I am not going to say we all need a big group hug and get acquainted with our touchy feely side. For women it is about stimulation and pressure, a building to the point the body forces a release. What I will say guys is talk with your woman and find out what she likes. It might seem odd the first few times but don’t give up.
For example I never knew the back of a woman’s knee could be and erogenous zone. Well not until I met a woman who I was trying to tickle and ended up getting her all hot and bothered. It took me a week to drag the information out of her but trust me that was one thing that went right into the knowledge bank. It is not all about the clits and tits, after all there is so much more on a woman to explore.
I think you will find communication and exploration to be key in making sure she isn’t left standing on dry land while you’re doing a high five with your cock. Want to be a good captain that they will come running to get on your boat? Then take the time to find those special wants and triggers to make it a ride they will never forget.