I often have wondered how people set up those elaborate scenes that look like a movie set, the perfect lighting and colors and so on. I live about as far to the other side as you can get. Nothing spectacular leading up to the point where a sub is over the knee, tied to the chair or any various other things that might be occurring. For me it’s the spur of the moment that really makes it worth doing, not quite like the commercial where when the moment is right it will be there for you, but more a feeling that can’t really be explained but rather felt.
An example of this comes from a while ago. (warning inserted here, I like blade play and this is what I will be describing. More important safety first, sharp steel and soft flesh tend to render the steel a winner) Walking up behind my sub I find her winding down for the evening, standing in front of the mirror checking out her perfect form. I walk in and kiss her on the neck, a growl I let reverberate in her ear sends chills along her skin. In a flash I have my hand at her throat speaking roughly to her and how she WILL like what is going to happen. I already know she will, we have discussed in some part the likes and dislikes. (I would never engage in play with a partner without knowing some boundaries, that can ruin a moment faster that it happens.) So now I have her in my grasp, tearing the remainder of her clothing off. I tend to keep a knife on me because of my work and it is razor sharp. I start by running the back of the blade along her flesh, moans and chills over take her. Yes it is rough, yes it is animalistic, but more important to me and her it is natural. She knows I suck as a planner so if she walked in and it was all set up then it would feel forced and even awkward to how we are with one another.
Now ok I got this idea, I want to do X to her one night, do I set it up? Do I try to force the moment or position? No not me, I wait. Patience pays off and I catch her in a position where idea X works and there is a scene after a week of contemplation and careful watching. Does that mean I didn’t touch that whole time I was planning, of course not. What did happen is that I kept an idea in the back of my head till it worked for the moment. Nothing planed, it just flowed with that moment of our lives.
The one who starts this type of improvised play should be creative. I have used everything from toothpaste ( I don’t like the taste but the light em up factor can’t be questioned) body lotion or coco butter (in fact the smell of pure coco butter is close to chocolate guys hint hint) to just pulling off my belt and using it for a binder, choker, or just to give a few needed lashes. Be creative and if that is not really your bag then place items that can be used as play in certain places and set up an ambush scene, where the partner walking in has no idea what is about to happen, then go with the flow. Nothing can relieve the frustration of a rough day like a good old fashion throw down wrestling match that becomes a sensual and erotic scene. No time limits, no boundaries, the house is battle field and all is fair in love and war. Just remember that any marks left that are exposed might have to be explained, and also we are not trying to kill each other, just blowing off some steam that would otherwise build up and cause a breakdown later.
The picture I am using is actually from behind the bedroom door. Not all things need to be hidden, she never knows when the cane or feather might catch my eye for a time of use but also there is a crop, belt and silk belt, each can be used so many different ways. All this to keep the wheels turning and know that an improv scene can break out anytime you want even in the middle of a disagreement. (those can be the hottest) Hum, wonder what I can find in the kitchen??? Good luck and happy sceneing my freaky darlings.